He’s the guy who would give up anything for love—even his own self-worth. The simp, defined as a lovelorn and overly attentive guy, is someone that no one wants to be. Yet by taking a closer look at how the simp approaches love, we can unpack some warnings about our own relationships—as well as some advice. Here’s our Take on how the simp might be setting himself up for failure, and what we can learn from his positive qualities so that we can all be better at love—whether it’s returned or not.